I've read through so many personals. Not just those directed at women searching for men. I've perused the men looking for women as well. We all have our preferences, our likes and dislikes. I, of course, am no different...But I'll get to those in a bit. First, a little about me...
I am many things. Like a cut and polished crystal or gem, there are many facets to me. I am gender fluid. Being such, changing oil, yard work, cooking, ironing clothes, fixing makeup, painting toe nails or a room, obsessing about the knot in my tie or how this skirt matches with this top. A myriad of things. The things that we just assume are merely assigned to a biological gender. And yet, that isn't all of me. I read, constantly. I love sci-fi, fantasy, noir, Steinbeck, Hemingway, King, Palahniuk, and comics. I observe the world through a camera lens, looking for the moment to capture its beauty. Music touches me, burns me, soothes me. My favorite color is blue. I love Italian, Indian, and Mexican food. And cheese. The world would be a much duller place without cheese.
I am not perfect. Anyone who says they are, are selling something. What I am, is weird. Frequently awkward. Shy. An INTP. Hilarious. Creative and open-minded. Carefully chaotic. Boisterously orderly.
What I am...I am me. I always will be. Not in a "You can't change me. I do what I want" way. Just...I know who I am.
So...as to who I am looking for. Well...If, while your eyes were wandering through my writing, they widened. A part of you brain was tickled. The dormant butterflies in your stomach fluttered. Hell, you chuckled out loud. That's who I'm looking for. Not because I narcissistically wrote this and think someone should respond.